Arlyss Rothman, former Third Mutual president, dies Arlyss Rothman, who was a former Third Mutual board member and president and current vice president of the Rossmoor Emergency Preparedness Organization (EPO), died Oct. 19 following a long fight with cancer. Rothman, 74, made her mark in Rossmoor almost immediately after she and husband, Al, arrived in 2015. She started as an entry coordinator